Why would People Love YOU?

Let's be honest. We love getting attention, Don't we?

We all love to be noticed and acknowledged in a gathering. 

So How do we achieve that? 

Using some age-old principles and practices used by great leaders, businessmen, orators, and stars.

 So what are they? 

 SMILE - A simple smile says a lot even without speaking a word!

One of Dale Carnegie's "must do's" in his book "How to win friends and influence people" is "Smile".

A smile enhances your face value. 

A natural spontaneous, honest, soft, short sile can do wonders.

Think of the million-dollar effervescent smiling face of a toddler. 

Just notice how your eyes brighten up when you put on a genuine smile. It shows your confidence and increases your acceptability with a new bunch of people.

Use your Magical smile to attract the love of your life. It works miracles in building Love Relationships. 

Sometimes an ego-less smile can wash away all misunderstandings between you and your girlfriend/spouse. It is one of the secret ingredients to a happy everlasting relationship

So Smile even before you utter a word.

 Even you can click selfies with a smile for posting on social media :-)

Just a line of caution -

 -   A Smile should remain a smile and never be converted to laughter and should be original! 

 -  You should always have a proper understanding of the mood of the occasion in which you are getting before casting a smile. 

Aha! Those sparkling  beautiful EYES

 The eyes are the most expressive part of an individual's non-verbal communication. Using those GOd gifted beauties can work as a miracle in building a rapport.

Direct eye-to-eye contact is very important and if it complements your smile, then nothing like it. But never extend it more than a few seconds.

You can understand a person's personality by looking into his eyes!

Thus if you directly look into the eyes while smiling at someone in a new environment, You have really struck the right chord! There's almost a surety that the individual would respond back in the same way with a smile sometimes even unknowingly! 

Eye contact radiates confidence. 

This should be used as a tool during job interviews and professional meetings or sales calls.  As it's said that you can't lie by looking into the eye. 

Never approx. make it more than 10 seconds to make the other person feel uncomfortable.

You shouldn't stare at someone directly for too long at one go. but should make direct eye contact at regular intervals. 

From personal experiences, I can say that it's easier said than done. Mainly for introverts and shy people, it's truly difficult to develop eye contact. But by keeping direct eye contact while speaking with your family and friends, you tend to create a Heart to Heart connection. Look into your Girl Friend's eyes directly to create a Magical moment!!

 

These are two simple yet important hacks that can bring in a  real change in your personality. It would increase your confidence. 

The world loves a confident person with a smile on his face and who can directly look into the eyes while speaking.

 

 

HIRING started in Banking Sector after LockDown!

Dear Job Seekers,

I hope you all are in Good Health

Here’s some Good News!

 RECRUITMENT  HAS STARTED AFTER LOCKDOWN - 

 So Hurry Up and apply -

 We are hiring for IDFC Bank. Below are the details about the job

     Company - IDFC First bank

     Position -Sales Officer ( multiple) on Bank's Payroll

     Function- CASA.  – Acquiring clients for Current Account, Savings Account

      Job Location – PUNE and GOA 

      (People from these two places should apply)

      No Consultation charges.

     Attractive salary (plus Incentive) package and growth

     Online Interview (phone/video call)

JOB OBJECTIVE: Providing support to branch profitability by selling bank product – CASA through different acquisition channels in the catchment area.

KEY JOB RESPONSIBILITIES -

1) Quality acquisition of casa. 2) Ensure quality sourcing of new customer 3) Penetration of Fixed Deposit to existing & new customers 4) Generate leads of a customer through referral, meeting branch walk-ins customer, associates, e-mailing, direct mailing, ATMs & cold calls in the catchment area. 5) Ensure quality customer service is delivered 6) Meeting productivity norms as defined through the support of channels & own efforts 7) Strictly adhere & maintain KYC norms compliance 8) Adhere the norms, regulation & practices of banks religiously   Eligibility Criteria:- Who can apply? ·         Candidate should be a Graduate with 1 – 4 years of  Sales job experience. -         Must be good in communication ·         Age should be 30 years maximum. ·         He /She should have relieving /experience proof of previous employment. -           It is preferable to have a two-wheeler as you would require to visit clients.    Candidates from Insurance sectors are welcome to apply.          Please share your CV on - kunaal.sengupta@gmail.com

What does Bollywood Actor Sushant Singh Rajput's death indicate?

Today I feel that I am bound to write on this topic

Guys we really need to ponder upon something. Something that demands deep introspection.

He was Young(just 34), handsome, successful as an actor, and obviously didn't have financial problems (  he was quite good at his craft). 

Just a day before he was there and today he is no more!

 What went wrong? 

Well, guys, don't get me wrong, I am not writing an investigative article about his unfortunate sudden death.

My point is that this is a real problem among the youth of our Nation and it seems the famous actor isn't a difference. DEPRESSION is in fact a serious issue which a majority of our youth are being caught into in modern society. Why? Why and only why these young fresh bright minds with so much potential and are getting so frustrated that they are getting desperate to take their own life!

Just think about the families of these young people, what gets through their minds.

It's also a question for the youth. What forces them to end-up their most valuable life with their own hands. What makes our youth so depressed. If there is a problem, then it needs to be discussed and solved. Because keeping it secret can be disastrous. We the young people of India should try knowing ourselves for the better so that whenever there's an alarm of depressing thought, we can take immediate action.

PLEASE SPEAK UP! - You have to trust and rely on that close friend of yours (obviously whom you think is trustworthy and would understand your feelings) and share your intimate thoughts. Speaking up to someone really helps. Don't try to act fake in front of these people, express your true self.

Give time on making some Real FRIENDS - It's not about the number but quality. make Two to three real friends. 1000 friends on social media might not be available during a crisis and if you can find a few good friends on social media, you would be lucky. Friends are treasures, with whom you can share the deepest thought of your heart, your feelings, sorrows, and happiness.

TAKE  PROFESSIONAL ADVICE -  This is a must. We shouldn't feel shy and always should take the professional help of a medical counselor. An expert in the field can guide us in the right direction. So we shouldn't delay it. SELF MEDICATION IS NEVER ACCEPTABLE.

CONNECT WITH THE SOCIETY - This is very important. We face a lot of problems today because we live a cocooned life. We love to live in our own comfort space and get agitated with a bit of disturbance in our zone. The truth is if we actually can see the problem that many of people in the society are dealing with today, then our own problems would really look so unimportant and silly. There are millions who are struggling to get both ends meet. There are millions around the world who can't even have two times meal! Let's think about them and try to do something to eradicate their plight. Once we engage in the elimination of someone else's sorrow by any means, then our own sorrow would vanish subsequently!

Get Into SPIRITUALISM -  It gives soothing experiences and provides answers to our life's questions. listen to the talks of great spiritual leaders. Start practising Yoga and meditation Get associated with any of the spiritual movements. Problems come in our lives to teach us something, we need to learn the lesson and move forward, never to repeat it again.

Do whatever you can, but friends never think of.. ending your life. We are all here to put in our best in life and live for the world and the people around us. Let's take a vow to do our level best towards the society at large in whatever way we can.  

May God help Us All.

May All Their Souls Rest in Peace.

Secret to bring in a positive change in your Attitude

Attitude is the 'Mental Picture', feeling, point of view towards something, somebody, i.e. the attitude object. 

 Our belief system determines our attitude. The way we are brought up, our value system develops our attitude towards the attitude object. Thus our parents, teachers, peers, and the environment play a pivotal role in shaping our attitude. Experiences that we gather during the early days of our life also impact our attitude.

Our Attitude towards life affects every aspect of life, be it a relationship, career, job, profession,  health, and even our body language!

Now here comes the million-dollar question - Can our attitude be changed? Can we change our attitude for Good?

The answer is YES! So we can change our attitude from negative to positive. 

Obviously, here I am not talking about changing positive attitudes to negative, which anyway is not desirable.

So, How do you bring in the required change?

You will have to Recondition your self i.e your belief system through positive input in a very disciplined and systematic manner. 

Definitely, it won't be a cake-walk, neither it would change overnight. That's a reason systematic positive reinforcement is required.  You will have to clean your window of self-belief and self-image regularly. 

So here are some practical ways for you to try out - 

 - Analyze yourself with 100% honesty -Take a note of the negative traits which require change. To bring in the change in your attitude, you need to change your old belief system. 

Don't rush in to change all at one go. That would never help you, but rather increase your frustration and chances of failure.

 - Bring down your interaction to a bare minimum if not zero with all those negative stuff around you. Negative People, News, books, articles, TV programs, negative series on apps has to be avoided. Most Importantly Negative People However close he or she might be (even if the closest relation), if it is only negative that they radiate, stay away from them. Politely maintain a safe distance. 

  - Be surrounded by Positivity - Let yourself be surrounded by all that is positive - Positive people, positive, quotes, Stick positive Quotes in your room so that you can see them always. Watch positive movies, motivational videos, Read self-changing, self-development books, there are plenty of them. 

    

 - Reduce your Mental luggage - 'Let go' of your old baggage, old failures, old memories that hurt. Laugh them off. No one knows you better than your self. So brush off all criticism. Take lessons from your failures and work on them. Don't be obsessed about something or somebody. Don't hold onto something for too long, if you think it's not working for you.

 - Don't get into an argument -  Please don't get into an argument or debate, It's just a waste of time. If anyone says anything about you, which you don't like or you think is wrong, don't get into a verbal confrontation. Start forgiving people and forgetting bitter incidents of the past. Rather work on self development.

 - Take life as a challenge - Start every day as a new gift. I may have been a loser yesterday, but  I know, I firmly believe that today I would go one step forward towards success. Face life on a day to day basis.  

 - Be honestly grateful for what you already have -  We all have something in our lives to be grateful for. Our home, our family, our loved ones, the food that we eat, and above all be thankful for our life. Make your own list of "blessings" and offer your gratitude to them.

 - Start something new in Life - A New hobby, Learn some new skills, Learn swimming, cycling, start going to new places, New friends! Pat your self even for the smallest of achievement. Please remember that Success improves our self-esteem. It creates a positive self-image and provides us with an impetus

 - Choose someone as your Idol - Follow his actions and reactions. Read about him, See how he talks, observe his body language. It would really be helpful. Try modeling him/

 

So, Let's accept the challenge and get going.

              

 The Biggest attitude is to keep your 'Hope' alive in all adversities.

                 If you can do it, then it means that you have won the game.

How to utilize the self isolation period for your benefit

We are all fighting the Coronavirus by wearing masks, maintaining social distancing, and staying at home.

WHAT ELSE CAN WE DO?!

Watch monotonous, disturbing news continuously! , and ache our finger in liking and commenting on Social media!

To have an update on Coronavirus, a news bite (for 5 to 10 mins) is enough. The more you overdose your brain with news, the more mindnumbing it would be.

And anyways WILL IT HELP??

SO WHAT CAN WE DO?

To get away from the monotony and boredom of lock-down and do something constructive for ourselves.

INVEST  IN OURSELVES. DON'T WORRY. I AM NOT ASKING TO INVEST YOUR MONEY (NO HARM IF YOU ACTUALLY CAN DO THAT!), BUT HERE I AM ASKING TO INVEST YOUR TIME AND ENERGY. OUR AIM SHOULD BE TO KEEP OUESELF UPDATED AND CONFIDENT.

Simply put. Grab this opportunity to hone your skills and acquire new ones if possible in this FREE TIME  

I have listed FIVE simple steps for you and would request you to ponder upon - 

  1) Read books. (Read more if you are already reading) -  ( Romantic novels, Bestsellers are okay but I would ask you to focus more on books of your subject of study or your domain of work and self-help books or Motivational books) Many a time we forget what we have read in the last few years  This is a good time to pick up some of our own old collection from the shelf and browse over a cup of coffee. I am addicted to the smell of old books. You might love it too!

   2) Analyze yourself! Yes, you heard it right. Change a 'Habit' if you want to, which you feel is n't that good. Nobody can understand you better than yourself. See where you can bring in improvement in your life and work on that. For example, you can slowly change to an early riser from a late riser. You can start incorporating freehand exercise into your daily routine. You can start speaking in English with any of your family members or even friends over the phone to improve your verbal communication etc. You can also start working on building your own Image. Start exercising or a new diet to increase your Immunity.

  3)Youtube Videos - It's a Treasure Trove. Search for videos on the topic you want to work on or learn about and I bet you would find a good number of videos with excellent quality content. Subscribe to some of the popular training channels to start learning. For example, If you are a Hindi speaker and want to learn English, then,'Learn English with Zita' channel would be really helpful. Youtube can play an important role in improving communication.

 

Watch them for free and take down notes of important points. Three to four quality videos ( you can watch more )on a topic would enhance your knowledge proving a good grip on the topic. You can download the videos for watching them again later.

  4) Free ebooks -Explore free e-books on various topics available on these five websites and start reading, online or offline ( by downloading)

Here are five famous free e-book sites - 

Please note I am not endorsing them but these are sites which as I am using. You yourself can find more of such sites on the net. Please do help me by providing their names if you can in the comment section.

 - https://manybooks.net/
  

 - https://www.overdrive.com/search -  It's worth a visit. Got a huge collection of e-books on various subjects.

 - https://bookboon.com/ - A great hub of free textbooks from top universities.

 - https://www.gutenberg.org/  -  A library of 60000 free e-books

 - https://openlibrary.org/ 

  5) Online Courses - Many of the E-Learning courses are available for free till May31st.You can try to acquire new skills. Subscribe to any of the courses as per your liking on the available platforms.

 

Here are the five e-learning sites that are trending - 

 - https://www.coursera.org - Coursera is a leading learning website that has tie-ups with Universities across the globe. and offers MOOCs  - Massive online Open Courses along with degrees, certificates to upgrade your career graph.

 - https://alison.com/ - Alison offers diploma and certificate courses in various streams of Management, Language, Science, Math, Marketing, Lifestyle, Health, etc.

 - https://www.mercurysolutions.co/ - A Basket full of  IT (Information Technology) courses are available on this site. So if you want to enhance your IT skills, you can definitely check this out.

 - https://www.edx.org/ - edX is another great platform for learners offering free courses. It provides 2500+ online courses. It has an association with top universities in the world like Harvard and Boston. It is worth value for your time and effort.

 - https://www.udemy.com/ - In Udemy, there are a lot of free courses available and many of the paid courses are now being offered at a highly discounted rate of  Rs. 360 per course till the 14th of May 2020.  It's a real big deal.

 Post-Coronavirus Lock-down days, courses from any of the above-mentioned sites may help you in your current job or while trying your luck in some other job. An additional skill always helps you to be noticed. It can also increase the value of your CV.  As an HR professional, I can guarantee you that a very common job interview question after the Coronavirus pandemic would be - " How have you spent your time during the Lock-down". I hope that the above suggestions would surely help you in providing an appropriate answer to that question. :-).

I am positive that the above information would be beneficial for you in the same way it has been to me.

Stay Safe, Keep your Immunity strong. Goodbye.