We all know that COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS. let's discuss a few important points on communication.
Here are a few points to ponder upon -
- Speaking with power and conviction is very important.
- Believe in what you say.
If you don't believe in yourself, no one else will!
- DO Not hesitate to be the first one to start a conversation. Don't let your Ego or Shyness play within your mind.
- Start with a smile on your face and a polite introduction especially starting a verbal interaction with someone new, whom you're meeting for the first time.
- See whether the other person is comfortable talking to you or not. It's your responsibility to make him/her feel comfortable.
- NEVER IGNORE the subtle body-language part of communication - a straight posture, frequent eye contact, not covering your face with your hand while talking are prominent indicators of Self-confidence.
- Take care of your posture. A stooping posture represents a lack of confidence. While talking with someone you should preferably stand straight.
- The common myth is people who don't speak the truth, can't look into the eye. So it's important to maintain frequent eye-to-eye contact. But it shouldn't exceed more than 10 seconds.
- Choose your words carefully. Don't sound diplomatic or sarcastic. It would be difficult to build up the trust factor. Keep it simple and straight.
- Maintain a safe distance. NEVER INTRUDE INTO SOMEONE'S COMFORT ZONE or personal life
- Speak Slowly and don't start running with your words! Speaking too fast shows that you are lacking confidence.
- Allow the other person to speak. Shoot some open-ended questions or ask for his opinions on something that you are discussing.
- Balance your conversation. Be a patient listener. A patient listener is always respected in all circles.
- Speak less listen more. This is the way to understand other people. Let them open up to you.
- Always keep a track of the way the communication is heading.
- Avoid getting into an argumentative mode while speaking for the first time with someone. Also, check if the other individual is comfortable discussing the issues you are speaking on.
- Most important - Be polite and humble in your words and gestures.
- Give some time and be patient don't hurry to build rapport.
These are age-old time-tested techniques that really work well.
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Have a Good day!
