Why would People Love YOU?

Let's be honest. We love getting attention, Don't we?

We all love to be noticed and acknowledged in a gathering. 

So How do we achieve that? 

Using some age-old principles and practices used by great leaders, businessmen, orators, and stars.

 So what are they? 

 SMILE - A simple smile says a lot even without speaking a word!

One of Dale Carnegie's "must do's" in his book "How to win friends and influence people" is "Smile".

A smile enhances your face value. 

A natural spontaneous, honest, soft, short sile can do wonders.

Think of the million-dollar effervescent smiling face of a toddler. 

Just notice how your eyes brighten up when you put on a genuine smile. It shows your confidence and increases your acceptability with a new bunch of people.

Use your Magical smile to attract the love of your life. It works miracles in building Love Relationships. 

Sometimes an ego-less smile can wash away all misunderstandings between you and your girlfriend/spouse. It is one of the secret ingredients to a happy everlasting relationship

So Smile even before you utter a word.

 Even you can click selfies with a smile for posting on social media :-)

Just a line of caution -

 -   A Smile should remain a smile and never be converted to laughter and should be original! 

 -  You should always have a proper understanding of the mood of the occasion in which you are getting before casting a smile. 

Aha! Those sparkling  beautiful EYES

 The eyes are the most expressive part of an individual's non-verbal communication. Using those GOd gifted beauties can work as a miracle in building a rapport.

Direct eye-to-eye contact is very important and if it complements your smile, then nothing like it. But never extend it more than a few seconds.

You can understand a person's personality by looking into his eyes!

Thus if you directly look into the eyes while smiling at someone in a new environment, You have really struck the right chord! There's almost a surety that the individual would respond back in the same way with a smile sometimes even unknowingly! 

Eye contact radiates confidence. 

This should be used as a tool during job interviews and professional meetings or sales calls.  As it's said that you can't lie by looking into the eye. 

Never approx. make it more than 10 seconds to make the other person feel uncomfortable.

You shouldn't stare at someone directly for too long at one go. but should make direct eye contact at regular intervals. 

From personal experiences, I can say that it's easier said than done. Mainly for introverts and shy people, it's truly difficult to develop eye contact. But by keeping direct eye contact while speaking with your family and friends, you tend to create a Heart to Heart connection. Look into your Girl Friend's eyes directly to create a Magical moment!!

 

These are two simple yet important hacks that can bring in a  real change in your personality. It would increase your confidence. 

The world loves a confident person with a smile on his face and who can directly look into the eyes while speaking.